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A She Warrior is a woman who goes through hell and high waters praising God and come out on the other side praising God for her circumstances she has overcome and can see the light (grace upon her life). She understands the storms that come her way, meant to break her, are only a testament of her faith. She recognizes that she alone can not weather the storm and that she needs Jesus to get her through. She understands the storms no matter the magnitude is preparing her for her destiny and equipping her to put on the full armor of God. She fears not. She questions not. She doesn’t seek understanding because she already has it. She knows it’s one more thing she must use as a steppingstone that’s preparing her to come face to face with a higher calling over her life. Her purpose.

Fear not, do not be dismayed, for your Father is with you. Rise above all that has come to rob, steal, and take away your joy, peace, and happiness. Keep the fire burning inside of you by surrendering it all to God and letting him take control of your situation. Release your stress, anxiety, worry, doubt, fear, judgement, lack of self-esteem and lack of confidence. Get out of your own way. You must surrender it all and relinquish your power of control to become free. If its not God’s will what are you doing? If it’s your wants and not your needs, you’re chasing after are you not running around like a chicken with no head? Are you chasing after something that you can’t see is no good for you? If you would place that same energy into building a relationship with Jesus how mighty would your blessings be! “When you’re walking in the spirit you will not fulfill the desires of the flesh.”

There is a mighty move of God waiting over every circumstance in your life what are you doing to receive it?? When all is weary, and you don’t know what to do or where to turn just say “But God or Jesus”. Calling on the name of Jesus will turn your situation around immediately!! He is a healer. He is a forgiver. He is a game-changer. He is a problem solver. He is a solution finder. He is a financial blessing. He is God almighty. He is the most high. He is love. All you have to do is surrender and ask the Holy Spirit to fill you. Establish a clean heart. Renew your mind. Give your soul peace. Restore what was lost. Fulfill every desire of your heart. Be specific to what you want. He is listening. Let Him move. You be still. Ask God to have His way with you and watch your life be forever changed! The power of God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit is a force unlike no other. Try HIM today!!

There can be a such thing as a He Warrior as well. God does NOT discriminate!!

If you were touched by the word you just read, and it resonated with you I encourage and invite you to log on every morning at 7am to “New Life Outreach International” prayer calls with Pastor Carlos Rivera!! In the comments if it’s your first-time joining type in my name so that I know you’re there!

Peace, love, and blessings!

Stop waiting for the perfect moment because it doesn’t exist. Even with the most careful planning, there are things you can’t control. Instead of waiting, take action and live life already! You don’t have to see the whole staircase – you just have to take the first step forward to get going!

I used to be a procrastinator.

I used to wait for others to say something or do something.

I used to wait for others to make the first move.

I used to wait for others to complete a task, take the initiative and lead.

The moment I realized that others can’t read my mind, won’t act and do as I would, and nothing is going to be hand delivered to my door step with out me putting forth effort I squashed sitting around waiting on things to magically happen. I went out and got the things I wanted, needed and deserved! I took the the lead and got the job done.

Its then I realized that when I moved things got done. Change happened. My life got simpler. Stress started to melt away. AND others were watching. They became motivated. They kicked in gear and started getting things done in their life. I set the example. I set the tone for others to improve their life.

When you wait, you waste time. When you move you get results.

#fypシ#dontwait#motivation

When God has a calling over your life! The bible says “All will know you by the way you live” your life. Daughters and Sons watch this powerful message from Bishop T. D. Jakes as he passes the torch. As he DECREASES so she can INCREASE.

A powerful message from a father to a daughter. Ladies if you didn’t have a father to encourage you, uplift you, praise you, tell you you are ENOUGH, teach you, be there to comfort you, be present in your life this is for YOU. Men if you didn’t have a good example of a father figure this is for you. You are not your lack. It’s never too late to rise above what you received. There’s still time.

https://fb.watch/j_puZgpQJw/

Free yourself from the past. Holding on to trauma, hurt, and past struggles WILL destroy you. It destroys friendships, relationships, marriages and divides families.

Forgive others who have wronged you. Ask for forgiveness from those you have wronged. Release. Its for you not them. Let it go.

Forgiveness was something I struggled with. I had so much anger, frustration and resentment inside for those that did me wrong. I disassociated myself from them. I thought by not speaking to them, not mingling with them or setting my eyes upon them that I would be fine. That it would all go away. I didn’t have to see them. Sure it worked for a time but it didn’t last long. I still had that torch burning inside whenever I heard their name mentioned.

I knew I had to get to a place where I asked for forgiveness so that I could move forward and beyond what was holding me back from living a life of peace. Once I made that move a shift happened in my life.

I am free. I am forgiven. I am forgiving. I am at peace. Letting go is exhilarating. The exhale I was waiting for and desperately needed came instantly. You see when you rise above all that came to destroy it won’t matter what needs to be done. What matters is that you had the strength and courage to do it!

#forgiveness #love #peace #followmeonfacebook #dontforgettosmile

Mistakes are part of life. Don’t beat yourself up if you make one. Instead, learn from it!

Making mistakes is a great way to grow, as long as you use them as lessons instead of letting them bring you down”.

I’ve made a lot of mistakes but as I reflect back on them I’m reminded they were lessons I needed to learn so that I don’t keep making them.

It’s not about the destinations before us it’s about the journey along the way.

#Message #Mistakes #learn #followmeonfacebook #motivation

We set our sights on people that aren’t right for us while overlooking those we need and their unique quality traits. Leaving us with regret for not choosing the more qualified candidate. Don’t continue the cycle. Break it today.

#breakthecycle #QualifiedCandidate #qualitytraits #regret #StopIt #choosewisely

Manipulation is prevalent in 2023. It has been for a very long time. Some may do it and don’t realize they are doing it while others may do it as a hobby to get their way hurting people along the way. Do you know what manipulation is? The Webster’s dictionary is “to control or play upon by artful, unfair, or insidious means especially to one’s own advantage”. The Oxford definition is “the action of manipulating something in a skillful manner or the action of manipulating someone in a clever or unscrupulous way”.

Manipulation is like a yo-yo. Imagine the string on the toy being manipulated around the circle being thrust up and down and around and around. This is the same repetitive motion people use to manipulate others. They have you up one minute and down the next. They will also have you going around in circles just to end back at the same place, going nowhere. Manipulation is an intentional and influential skill used to control others to get them to think, act and behave in a way needed by the manipulator to accomplish an objective or goal. A skill of entanglement. A skill used to fog your mind and clog your judgement; take away your sense of clarity. Its intent is to cause as much confusion as possible to hide what’s really in front of you. Manipulators are disturbed and they want you to be disturbed. Manipulators are emotionally and mentally dysfunctional and it’s their mission to entangle as many on their path in their web of messiness. They want you to question everything about your existence, cause you to dismantle self and view yourself as the problem when in essence the real problem is them. A manipulator will lie and have a convincing argument that is believable if you don’t have the gift of discernment.

Manipulation is something I know all too well. I’ve allowed people to manipulate me more times than I can count. You name it, I’ve heard it and experienced it. I thank God for the gift of discernment. It took me a while to come to my senses and become wise, get from beneath the spell of others and to set healthy boundaries for myself. It took me a while to get “hip” to the skill others were using on me; taking my kindness for weakness and my willingness to see the good in people as an opening to use me. For example, I’ve been told by someone “I’m going to take a trip to see if I can handle it alone”. When asked for the location where this person would stay, I got the excuse that “the system is down, and it isn’t giving me the booking information”. I also was told, “no, I didn’t receive a confirmation email”. And the ultimate lie, “I can send you the host information” knowing full well that if I chose to call, I would not be given any information about the booking from the host because I wasn’t going to be a guest. Why lie, I asked myself? I didn’t ask for a lie or for them to be untruthful to themselves. I pose the question, how hard is it for a person to tell the truth? Why waste time convincing someone of something when clearly, it is a lie? Awareness took over. I realized I can’t do anything to stop a person from being untruthful, but I can stop listening to them by not associating with them. I can stop them from feeding me lies by simply taking their position in my life and terminating it. Another occasion that I remember is a family member asking for money when I asked for help with something non-monetary. Only to find out they sold an item they were committed to using to help me with. They got upset with me because it took longer than they expected. Not knowing the person that purchased the item was upset because the person who helped me didn’t stay committed to their word. How is that fair I wondered? How is that my fault? Why do I have to feel guilty about something someone else created? Well, I didn’t, in either instance. I let it be. Did I get upset? Sure because of the lies and their insensitive actions and behavior towards me to manipulate me but not because of anything else relating to emotion. Emotions you have to control not the other way around.

One way to combat manipulation is to get with someone you trust and talk to them revealing what was told to you. The reason behind this is not to gossip, not to seek validation, not to question or test what your intuition is telling you. Repeating what a manipulator has said to you out loud helps you hear clearer and really understand what they were saying to you. It’s a different type of revelation when you hear yourself repeating a lie out loud to someone else. A person other than yourself brings value to the situation. They help because they aren’t confused, they have clarity and discernment to recognize if they are being told a lie and can smell manipulation a mile away. They aren’t close to the manipulator or the situation so they can immediately recognize it.

Surrender it all….. The manipulators. The lies. The inability of discernment. The acceptance of a false reality. The trust of another human being completely. The only person you can trust completely is God. You trust humans at the length they are willing to go to display their trustworthiness. Read that again if you missed it. When you are aware, have clarity, and master listening and trusting your intuition you will not be easily manipulated and controlled. Free your mind and then free yourself of manipulators.

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When you become aware of the dynamics of a situation the moment it is presented to you, you’ll move differently.

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Our eyes is the doorway to our soul. Behind those eyes there is a story. A story of happiness, peace & contentment. A story of sorrow and the heavy burdens we carry. A story of grace, mercy and Gods Holy Spirit upon you.

What story does your eyes tell?

You say you won’t tolerate this and that but you do. You speak up and say what you need to say and if the situation doesn’t change you leave. Only to find yourself back in it a few days, a few weeks, a few months or perhaps a year later. Stop the vicious cycle and heal so that you don’t find yourself back in the same place.