The Rules of Engagement: A Woman’s Influence

The Rules of Engagement: A Woman’s Influence

An interesting topic that came up this morning in my Overcome & Grow fb group.

Ladies what you present to your man in the beginning you need to be able to maintain. If you are showing a man in the beginning someone other than who you are, chances are you will have problems in the future. Why? Because you falsified yourself and perpetrated a fraud.

The thought “I’ve got him now so I don’t have to continue doing those things or being sexy” is a total mess and misconception. That’s the wrong thought to have. Men are organically stimulated by visual stimuli. What he is drawn to visually is what he is attracted to and falls in love with. Sorry, but it’s the truth. Don’t underestimate him though. He understands your body will change over time, and your looks will change as you get older but what should remain the same is your outward appearance. How you maintain yourself. How you present yourself. How you are willing to be extra for him. How you enjoy being proactive about your health, etc. Sometimes it’s ok to let him be involved in your choice of dress. For the mature ladies, you’ll understand what I mean by that statement.

Any woman who wants to know how to be an influence, learn how to function in a relationship, and learn what motivates, encourages, uplifts, and the genetic DNA of a MAN, as it relates to dating, relationships, and marriages, should grab a copy of Tony & Sheri Gaskins’ book A Woman’s Influence. It literally changed my perspective on a lot of things. And MEN THIS IS FOR YOU TOO, grab a book to learn how you can function well in relationships and marriages with a woman. Oh and did I mention if you’re not a reader it’s on audible! All you have to do is push a button and it will read itself to you! No excuses.