From Singleness to Relationship

When you love someone you talk through things. You talk, you listen, you’re patient, you’re understanding, considerate and most of all respectful. There’s so much you can and should be when opportunities come which requires you to communicate you are present.

Obstacles will emerge, they are significant and sometimes warrant a hard conversation. Simply because individuals do things differently when they are single and their perception of it is valid during that time.

However, what many fail to realize is when you step out of your singleness and into a relationship what you think is ok in your singleness is not when you’re involved with another.

You simply can not continue doing the same things. Your actions, response and willingness to walk across a slippery floor to the other side is key components to leaving one part of your life and entering another.

Be prepared for what it takes and know what it means to date and be dated. Your transition is key because people are paying attention. Functioning in relationships require you to respect the other persons boundaries, change your interaction with others and have a level of openness you did not have.

Stop being silent about the things you need to be loud about