Your apology needs to be as loud as your disrespect was….

Your apology needs to be as loud as your disrespect was

APOLOGY 1-ON-1

Sometimes its not enough to say “I’m sorry”. Half the time people don’t mean it. They say it because it’s what you NEED to hear or what they FEEL they need to say to get you to snap back in place to forgive them so they can get on with their agenda.

You will know when you receive a sincere apology. A simple “I apologize” is NOT a sincere apology. I was once told saying “I’m sorry” makes that person feel like a sorry person, like they are admitting to fault which makes them look like a bad person. I also heard someone say “I apologize” isn’t saying I’m sorry for hurting you but simply acknowledging I’m aware what I said offended you because you’re saying something to me about it.

If a person does not come to you on their own free will to say they are sorry and mean it you do not have to accept it. Matter fact if someone wrongs you it would be wise to understand they are not capable of doing right by you and not willing to take accountability for their actions (right now).

Recognize & truly understand you don’t NEED an apology from others if you are secure within yourself.

It’s very important you know the difference of a sincere apology vs one that’s not, especially if you’re seeking an apology from someone. Listen to what people say and don’t be quick to accept something because you want to hear it.

Not all people will operate as you do. Not all people see issues with what they do. If the apology doesn’t calm the storm in your spirit, there’s a reason.