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IF YOU HAVE THE VINE YOU HAVE LOVE AND JOY in your life. Your branches will be plentiful. 💛

Today being the last 1st sunday of the year, where we take cummion, I encourage you to start today building a foundation. A foundation is solid when He is first. Everything built upon that foundation will stand regardless of what’s meant to destroy it. Starting over shouldn’t produce fear, worry or doubt because He’s giving you time to rebuild the correct way. Don’t delay.

Let go of past church hurt, ridicule, the pain and suffering you’ve experienced from unforeseen circumstances and events that have caused you to doubt His worthiness of your full and undivided attention and unconditional love.

HE is still waiting to receive you! Let it be today. There’s still hope and in Him all things are possible.

Let’s engage in a healthy, biblical dialogue.

I’m 42 years old, and for as long as I can remember, I have been told that women are not supposed to preach, be in the pulpit, wear head coverings, and so forth when speaking in the church.

As I read the word for myself, I thank God for giving me the gift of discernment. The hunger to want to know more of His word. He said, “Seek and ye shall find”.

Paul himself urged the church of Rome to warmly welcome and assist Phoebe in her role as a leader, a helper, and a servant (deacon) of the church. Romans 16:1-2. So what others so loosely say “a woman is not supposed to preach/teach” is it true or false? God calls and anoints not man.

It may not mean much to some, but to me, when I come across scriptures that speak to the very things that were instilled in me at a young age, shining light on their inaccurate teaching, it makes me fall much deeper in love with God. I asked Him for the spirit of discernment, wisdom, and to help guide me to the truths of His word in areas of my life where I need it most.

He delivers every single time. Share your thoughts on what you think.

As I’m leaving Kroger, I see a mother and father exchange – their child, who can’t be more than about 6 months old, if that. I’m reminded how men and women often—too often—hook up. They do so with no real intentions, stability, or future goals in mind. It’s all for a good time. Well, that is until a child comes into the picture. Then, the fun is over, and everything goes up in smoke.

Men, stop casually dating, getting women pregnant, and selling the dream only to NOT be what you claimed. Stop being the root cause of broken homes, one-parent homes, and fatherless children.

Women, stop being so easily persuaded. Laying down without protecting your body, heart, and life before you’re ready. Say no to having a man’s baby without truly knowing who you’re having a child with. Don’t fall for the man who is a smooth talker, wine and dines you, and smells or looks fly.

Let’s do better for the children we bring into this world. They deserve the best of both, and you simply can’t be that if you’re divided!

Somebody needs to hear this. Raising kids as a single mother or single father is NO joke! Shout out to all the single mothers and fathers out there!

As a communicator, mentor, and coach I’ve found similarities in situations that have nothing to do with the other leading back to one root cause; emotions.

I’ve witnessed individuals and couples shift blame, gaslight, and manipulate because they can’t manage their emotions. Situations you find yourself in will change if you manage your emotions vs them managing you.

Learn to control your emotions by identifying them, sitting in them, and learning your response to them and why they affect you. It’s a simple fix but most people don’t want to take the time to look inward because they are too busy looking at someone else to unload on or blame.

When you fix you – you fix the problem.

I used to look out the window, now I look in the mirror. Why? Shifting blame onto other people does nothing but cause more problems because at the end of the day we control the way we react and behave. I have a choice in every situation. The decisions I make is my responsibility and I choose to make them wisely. When I allow myself to explore why something triggers me and identify with what I’m feeling I’m equipped to handle it in a healthy manner and not cause further harm to me or others. Life can be really simple or really hard. The choice is yours. Control your emotions and watch things around you change. I encourage you all to start today managing your emotions.

Leave me a comment and tell me what steps you’ve taken and what has worked for you.

Hello Overcomers!

Are you tired of wondering if you’re the only one living a life with day-to-day struggles? Feeling like everyone around you is winning and you’re not? Do you feel ashamed of your past? Is it difficult to overcome the things you’re currently dealing with? Or perhaps you just want someone for once you can relate to who understands what you’re going through?

Well, I have found a solution to help you. I’ve always enjoyed talking to people. People are my passion and helping them rewards me in more ways than one. I want you to know you’re not alone and having a simple conversation can help more than you know.

4Seven is my new YouTube channel where I share triumph tales you can relate to. I don’t plan to feed you nonsense. You’re getting the rare but real true Kisha. I hope my experiences will help you gain the insight, inspiration, strength, and encouragement you need to push forward.

Welcome video (live) this week. Just so you know – the announcement will be made soon. Every week there will be something new and informative. Subscribe, like and share. Together we can make a difference if we’re open, honest, and true to ourselves and each other.

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Almost three years ago I came to a place where I desperately needed to find a release. I was drowning and discouraged, and things went wrong every time I turned around.

One day, alone, in silence, I started thinking and thinking until I found a strategic plan that worked for me. How to release the things I was holding on to that had me confused, unstable, and focusing on the wrong things.

The road map to freedom. It still helps me when I have an issue that comes up and I have difficulty trying to make sense of it. I go back to the basics and start at the beginning acknowledging there is a problem, accepting my part in it, refocusing my thoughts, and recharging my energy. That’s when I find relief- the courage to release whatever it is before it causes me to stumble or fumble my blessings.

In your vulnerable and difficult times, I encourage you to try my method. You don’t need outside forces to help you overcome. What I’ve found to be most productive is to quiet the noise around you. You’ll be more likely to arrive at the place you’re intended to be and at the right time.

For those of you who love to read who need a few good books to realize the potential inside of you, the power God has given you and the strength you have to change any situation around for the better I encourage you to get these 3 books! 📚

You will thank me later 👏🏾🙌🏾

✅ It’s important to recognize you are carrying around emotional trash preventing you from living a life of peace because of the heaviness you’re carrying everyday. Find out why and what could be hindering you from having successful relationships and friendships. Find out what exactly you need to identify within yourself and why you need to let it go! 😌

✅ Being codependent has had you suffering for so long and now it’s time for you to get your life back and come from under the darkest shadows cast upon you from other people! Rise up and fly!🪽

✅ The shadow book will help you take an extensive inventory of yourself. Learning about you and your flaws and faults are never easy but it’s worth it! Having to rehash the past can be taunting but beneficial for processing, perspective and healing. Get to know all of you. Learn how to move beyond what’s already held you captive for so long! 🪤 ⛓️

Ladies & Gentlemen

Listen up…..

Someone has hurt you, caused you heartache and headache after headache, used you, abused you, called you names, perhaps drugged your name through the mud, made you doubt yourself, feel insecure, lowered your self-esteem, bruised your ego, humiliated you, a victim of gaslighting, and been under the control of a narcissist.

Rise above it!! Take your life back. You are in control. No one can do anything to you if you do not allow it. The #1 thing you need to focus on right NOW is overcoming their grip on you emotionally and mentally.

What someone does to you has nothing to do with you but everything to do with them. The sooner you realize nothing you could have said, did, or didn’t do played no part in a person choosing to do something. Anything a person does that causes hurt and pain to someone is because they are broken, unstable, and hurting inside. The best advice I could give you is to pray for them, pray God releases you mentally, emotionally, and physically from that situation, and have the courage to walk forward with boldness for what God has in store for you. When you do this, surrendering it all to God, and not giving attention to it or them you will have a peace unlike anything you’ve ever imagined!!

Peace be with you. It’s time to take your peace back!!!