Financial Responsibilities: Who do they belong to?

I have seen time after time ladies who are in long term relationships with men complain about their men not supporting them, not helping them with bills and so forth. It grinds my gears to hear this. Ladies don’t expect a man to take care of you, YOU take care of you. If a man wants to do anything for you financially it’s a PLUS. Consider yourself BLESSED. Especially if you are NOT married. And even if you are MARRIED it is not a man’s sole responsibility to take care of you. The two of you become ONE FLESH therefore taking care of EACHOTHER.

Don’t get it twist now it’s not only women that have this viewpoint that a man is supposed to take care of her, but men have also gotten just as worse.

I associate this kind of behavior to the mindset of some people as if someone owes you something. They do not.

We all work hard for our money and all these lavish livings are uncalled for. You don’t need that expensive LV purse, you don’t need to go to those $5,000 ticket concerts, you don’t need the latest Harley Davison bike, and you don’t need that 10-bedroom home for everyone in your family to stay in when they visit when it’s just YOU, or you and HIM or Her.

Let’s stop putting on a show and for Christ’s sake stop making others see you as the clown in your own circus.

Dare to do better.