Hey You!

Thanks for stopping by. Whatever brought you here, I’m glad it did. You being here is the first step to stepping outside the box that you have been trapped in for so long. Listen, I know exactly what it’s like to be in your shoes. You name it, I’ve been through it. After countless tears, sleepless nights, being disgusted with my situation and feeling like I just couldn’t do anything about it, I made it my mission to FIND A SOLUTION! And guess what? I DID and I want to share it with you so that you can break FREE and experience the peace you desperately seek!

I know there is no ONE situation the same that’s why I believe in meeting people where they are and helping them along the way. Your experience with me will be tailored to meet your specific need. It’s my mission to help you restore what has been lost, help you learn how to love yourself and find healing. It’s ok to feel like you don’t have it together and feel like your life is spiraling out of control but what is not ok is you staying there and doing nothing about it. I’m here to help you with that.

Let me tell you a quick story. My story! I am a divorced mother of 3 beautiful children. Has it always been easy? Heck naw! I married my high school sweetheart and after 7 years found out he had been having feelings towards the same sex for a very long time. I don’t judge people for their sexual preference because I believe that to be an independent choice and who are we to judge how others live their life? We have no right. However, for me I felt betrayed and I felt like I was a cover up. Seven years of my life and three babies later and this happens? He cheated on me every year we were married but this was the straw that broke the camels back. It wasn’t a woman this time, it was a man. I would never have known had it not been for God revealing it to me in his timing.

After I came to from having an outer body experience which lasted for quite some time I spoke to my husband and told him I wanted a divorce. Upon telling him this he decides to add more chaos to the midst of this already devastating life changing news. He took a bunch load of pills which caused me to worry even more. Here I was 27 years old with 3 small children and an unstable husband. I had to keep it together for my children and him, right? Visiting my husband in a psychiatric hospital my life flashed before me yet again. Since I was his wife, the hospital asked if I felt safe with him staying home by himself. Of course I said NO! His family thought I was the absolute worse for telling the doctor that. They felt I was the cause of what was happening, and they felt I should have understood all he was going through because HE was the victim of childhood trauma. This childhood trauma that was hidden from his wife of 7 years and the mother of his 3 children. But what about me? No one ever said I’m sorry Kisha you are going through this. How can I help you? Do you need to talk? How are you handling all this?

Fast forward, I gathered my thoughts which were a million per second of every day. I struggled to get through. I saw an opportunity to change my life, that of my children and my situation so I moved to Atlanta. Living there, I met a whole new devil at a different level. My aunt, who I had come to VA to take me back with her said I didn’t have to worry about anything. I could move in with with her until I could get on my feet. A fresh start. Little did I know this would be a nightmare. She would keep toilet paper, soap, dish detergent and other necessities from my children and me. She was bipolar. She never praised anything anyone did that was good. If you were down, she kicked you even more. I witnessed her belittling her children, the man she was with, and so much more. I was living in hell. No job, 3 states away from home, and limited resources. This was the same person that said she would help me through my situation so that I could start over while going through my divorce.

A few months later after being in Atlanta, the same aunt had a big disagreement with my biological father and decided to unleash fury on me even though I was not at her house at the time. I was out with a friend that I had met since being in Atlanta. I get phone calls after phone calls one day saying your aunt is delusional and evil, etc. I go home to my aunt’s residence, where I am staying, to find out she wants me out! Yes, you heard me. She wanted me gone. Kicked me out and it was no fault of mine! I have nowhere to go all because of a conversation filled with lies and confusion SHE caused.

Out in the streets with no where to go, the struggle was real yawl. I cried so many days and nights. I couldn’t eat. I had headaches every day. Everything that could go wrong went wrong. There was a family member that was very into the congregation that I reached out to that allowed me and my children to stay for a few weeks. I couldn’t stay longer than that because she had young boys and that was not permitted. So here I am trying to gather my thoughts together to come up with a plan but with limited time working against me. I didn’t know what I was going to do. A kid in her late 20tys with kids having to learn how to be a real adult real quick.

My mother talked to her sister (my aunt) and begged her to take me and my children back in until I could get on my feet. Talk about PRIDE you, guys! I had to suck it up for my children’s sake. I walked back into hell and had to pray my way through it for a few months until I received my tax refund check. That’s when I secured an apartment for my children and me.

This is only a part of my story, and I promise to share MORE with you. I just want you to know that I have been through, and I have come out on the other end with lessons learned, wisdom to share and a story to tell. By sharing my story with you and how I rose above all odds will help you face and conquer yours! Connect with me to start your process on the road to recovery!

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